要FHvE$+O}重新]Dq#58Vi适应rB+GCfKj国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]环境,海|nOp&q#e归需调整心态。殷婷绘
有zu|rt\ol关NGMr+!Lz人1k}4&6Xl士建议,海|nOp&q#e归应rB+GCfKj降低工MHO7fn1c作期望值,调整好R$y#XUXf心态去YzBB*xVu适应rB+GCfKj环境
出8@BZM^1h国?leU1rU9留学(AKdfN5?,去YzBB*xVu到Ix&%TX?r完全_9+O)~qI陌生的Dh?a2sI[环境,许多留学(AKdfN5?生都oocHiLt(会xZzXFem7有zu|rt\ol“水土不VHLno!1~服”的Dh?a2sI[情况,不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj异国?leU1rU9的Dh?a2sI[语言文化_qNM~WU~、生活习惯等等。其%c#zI54^实,不VHLno!1~单8f6z}IE\是TiUq3{mT留学(AKdfN5?生,许多海|nOp&q#e归人1k}4&6Xl士同2sX6j5^g样要FHvE$+O}面对DfUZO@d$回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9后%W_itJtg的Dh?a2sI[“水土不VHLno!1~服”,专家gu7OVAyr称Qx}9[Osc之为\&ngAUn\“逆向k)Lg*hp3文化_qNM~WU~休克FsGwl5Qt”现&%PxbSa0象
案例一jSG]BLpe:
国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2处@ojDkr3D事简单8f6z}IE\ 回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9不VHLno!1~胜应rB+GCfKj酬
从(ZmTl72q加z^hX_h|\拿l&hiFON8大zFiOET)u学(AKdfN5?成%6fTBtcV归国?leU1rU9的Dh?a2sI[侯先生近日K9m*SCKj向k)Lg*hp3公Yd4j~}sU司请@Os}uoh!辞,原因c_{v\xUL是TiUq3{mT不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj公Yd4j~}sU司的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作。私底下%SmBM69{他说,其%c#zI54^实自己是TiUq3{mT极度不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj繁忙的Dh?a2sI[应rB+GCfKj酬。
6年7gPBn^p\前?VE^rc+F,侯先生从(ZmTl72q南YihqyY9z宁赴加z^hX_h|\拿l&hiFON8大zFiOET)u读#q\#T+(y书6PU!x~e],读#q\#T+(y完本mddRxxWq科b~lb3U&G和L$34KpxF硕士,硕士毕业后%W_itJtg在{2]fiOfP加z^hX_h|\拿l&hiFON8大zFiOET)u工MHO7fn1c作了Xaq0@[oi一jSG]BLpe段时期。去YzBB*xVu年7gPBn^p\,因c_{v\xUL为\&ngAUn\家gu7OVAyr庭原因c_{v\xUL,侯先生从(ZmTl72q加z^hX_h|\拿l&hiFON8大zFiOET)u回3R_r9y!t到Ix&%TX?r南YihqyY9z宁,很!5k{%hfj快yC5Bz{me在{2]fiOfP一jSG]BLpe家gu7OVAyr房i{&AE!^v企找到Ix&%TX?r了Xaq0@[oi工MHO7fn1c作,职务是TiUq3{mT策划部经理。侯先生认ddjeG}wo为\&ngAUn\,凭着iERXCqX?自己的Dh?a2sI[业务能4_j4!3bS力完全_9+O)~qI可ntqtjMVl以CacE^T!4胜任GCM!ql*l这Fk9Tcd1e份工MHO7fn1c作。
让UYE?&eSm他没m4#Wk@(|想到Ix&%TX?r的Dh?a2sI[是TiUq3{mT,国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作方Ff?C0ynZ式与他在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2完全_9+O)~qI不VHLno!1~同2sX6j5^g。侯先生说,他此g*MZ]rI6前?VE^rc+F在{2]fiOfP加z^hX_h|\拿l&hiFON8大zFiOET)u一jSG]BLpe家gu7OVAyr公Yd4j~}sU司做D8W%tdVQ策划师,上?vtBWk(@班j|4wtEcC时间之外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2,老XwjNJBR~板绝对DfUZO@d$不VHLno!1~会xZzXFem7叫k$IIP7Wl他加z^hX_h|\班j|4wtEcC或fE\!vDIT应rB+GCfKj酬客户,“下%SmBM69{了Xaq0@[oi班j|4wtEcC,我PT?3J4Od大zFiOET)u部分rWp#cM}j时间不VHLno!1~是TiUq3{mT在{2]fiOfP家gu7OVAyr里}fytq|LH看LL?]k$!x书6PU!x~e],就lJFKnys\是TiUq3{mT到Ix&%TX?r健身q5oRd)dz房i{&AE!^v锻炼,甚至可ntqtjMVl以CacE^T!4说,这Fk9Tcd1e样的Dh?a2sI[生活过htLsHyK4于rQ^rla$t简单8f6z}IE\和L$34KpxF枯燥”。当9e3WHKhC然,他在{2]fiOfP加z^hX_h|\拿l&hiFON8大zFiOET)u那w@$NtMSL边8?T1L88#与客户的Dh?a2sI[关NGMr+!Lz系也mCr^V)h9比M|+iU|kH较简单8f6z}IE\,除了Xaq0@[oi工MHO7fn1c作时间里}fytq|LH一jSG]BLpe起vji5@%ry交1ROH2Wp|流方Ff?C0ynZ案外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2,下%SmBM69{班j|4wtEcC后%W_itJtg很!5k{%hfj少npcqD[3~联系。“可ntqtjMVl是TiUq3{mT在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]却|1R}9vE_不VHLno!1~一jSG]BLpe样了Xaq0@[oi,这Fk9Tcd1e里}fytq|LH的Dh?a2sI[人1k}4&6Xl际关NGMr+!Lz系比M|+iU|kH较复杂,作为\&ngAUn\策划部经理,下%SmBM69{班j|4wtEcC之后%W_itJtg,一jSG]BLpe周起vji5@%ry码有zu|rt\ol4天8S!B0HO*要FHvE$+O}和L$34KpxF老XwjNJBR~板外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2出8@BZM^1h应rB+GCfKj酬客户,请@Os}uoh!客吃饭,双VNf}$S5C休日K9m*SCKj也mCr^V)h9经常要FHvE$+O}加z^hX_h|\班j|4wtEcC谈项目”。他说,这Fk9Tcd1e些vKk]yn[V应rB+GCfKj酬不VHLno!1~外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2乎是TiUq3{mT陪客户喝酒、唱歌等等,在{2]fiOfP老XwjNJBR~板的Dh?a2sI[示意下%SmBM69{,他常被(4{tH~4M迫喝得ZZw+Z7QW大zFiOET)u醉,不VHLno!1~胜其%c#zI54^烦。
侯先生说,有zu|rt\ol几GLC2ubRc次68ra0IRI他实在{2]fiOfP不VHLno!1~想去YzBB*xVu应rB+GCfKj酬,便向k)Lg*hp3老XwjNJBR~板推脱,事后%W_itJtg公Yd4j~}sU司一jSG]BLpe位同2sX6j5^g事私下%SmBM69{告诉他,老XwjNJBR~板有zu|rt\ol点1zwm|#Vy生气f{l1qNvQ,觉得ZZw+Z7QW他这Fk9Tcd1e样的Dh?a2sI[海|nOp&q#e归心气f{l1qNvQ高QGiLZB+n、摆谱。思索再Cf!ecPi^三[*h6u~}R,侯先生向k)Lg*hp3公Yd4j~}sU司递交1ROH2Wp|了Xaq0@[oi辞职书6PU!x~e],可ntqtjMVl是TiUq3{mT他不VHLno!1~知道,下%SmBM69{一jSG]BLpe个@@rAJ#Kg入5LF@z|bT职的Dh?a2sI[公Yd4j~}sU司,是TiUq3{mT不VHLno!1~是TiUq3{mT也mCr^V)h9会xZzXFem7出8@BZM^1h现&%PxbSa0应rB+GCfKj酬频繁的Dh?a2sI[情况。
案例二{Wr9F7nr:
留学(AKdfN5?近十Cagk?1qW载 回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9成%6fTBtcV“白n3ovo{|w板”
从(ZmTl72q高QGiLZB+n中_$i_^b66到Ix&%TX?r硕士一jSG]BLpe直在{2]fiOfP美国?leU1rU9读#q\#T+(y书6PU!x~e]的Dh?a2sI[唐小J\uPbYW(姐去YzBB*xVu年7gPBn^p\回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9,想在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]干@2#DgN+{出8@BZM^1h一jSG]BLpe番事业,不VHLno!1~曾想,离开4x9bp?Nm祖国?leU1rU9近10年7gPBn^p\再Cf!ecPi^回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9时,除了Xaq0@[oi亲人1k}4&6Xl,她基本mddRxxWq上?vtBWk(@等同2sX6j5^g于rQ^rla$t“白n3ovo{|w板”,没m4#Wk@(|有zu|rt\ol朋友,同2sX6j5^g学(AKdfN5?疏离,没m4#Wk@(|有zu|rt\ol人1k}4&6Xl脉,工MHO7fn1c作和L$34KpxF生活颇感困扰。
去YzBB*xVu年7gPBn^p\5月,唐小J\uPbYW(姐离开4x9bp?Nm呆了Xaq0@[oi近10年7gPBn^p\的Dh?a2sI[美国?leU1rU9,回3R_r9y!t到Ix&%TX?r中_$i_^b66国?leU1rU9。她顺利地ExVeyI$I在{2]fiOfP深圳一jSG]BLpe家gu7OVAyr开4x9bp?Nm发_uq!hAj)企业财务系统的Dh?a2sI[公Yd4j~}sU司找到Ix&%TX?r了Xaq0@[oi驻广R1S\0}6o西u!hrmD\S事务组长r7Md]8Am的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作。在{2]fiOfP美国?leU1rU9,她所S|!Kvm~j学(AKdfN5?的Dh?a2sI[专业就lJFKnys\是TiUq3{mT市场营销。接4m}qRtuq手工MHO7fn1c作后%W_itJtg,唐小J\uPbYW(姐觉得ZZw+Z7QW有zu|rt\ol点1zwm|#Vy吃力,她的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作其%c#zI54^实就lJFKnys\是TiUq3{mT广R1S\0}6o西u!hrmD\S区营销经理的Dh?a2sI[角色,需要FHvE$+O}发_uq!hAj)展客户群,特别是TiUq3{mT要FHvE$+O}与各S)nu1o|~种企业打交1ROH2Wp|道,推销公Yd4j~}sU司的Dh?a2sI[财务软件产品。
唐小J\uPbYW(姐接4m}qRtuq手工MHO7fn1c作后%W_itJtg发_uq!hAj)现&%PxbSa0,由vEZTG0R)于rQ^rla$t自己从(ZmTl72q高QGiLZB+n中_$i_^b66阶段就lJFKnys\已GY4JAGkR出8@BZM^1h国?leU1rU9,曾经熟悉的Dh?a2sI[同2sX6j5^g学(AKdfN5?都oocHiLt(已GY4JAGkR陌生,在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]除了Xaq0@[oi亲戚,几GLC2ubRc乎不VHLno!1~熟悉其%c#zI54^他人1k}4&6Xl,也mCr^V)h9就lJFKnys\是TiUq3{mT说,作为\&ngAUn\营销人1k}4&6Xl员,自己是TiUq3{mT“白n3ovo{|w板”,人1k}4&6Xl脉几GLC2ubRc乎为\&ngAUn\零。有zu|rt\ol几GLC2ubRc次68ra0IRI,唐小J\uPbYW(姐到Ix&%TX?r几GLC2ubRc家gu7OVAyr公Yd4j~}sU司推介产品,本mddRxxWq来a_2@Wk{C这Fk9Tcd1e些vKk]yn[V公Yd4j~}sU司对DfUZO@d$产品很!5k{%hfj感兴趣,几GLC2ubRc乎要FHvE$+O}拍板定下%SmBM69{,可ntqtjMVl事后%W_itJtg却|1R}9vE_没m4#Wk@(|了Xaq0@[oi音讯。后%W_itJtg来a_2@Wk{C她了Xaq0@[oi解到Ix&%TX?r,是TiUq3{mT其%c#zI54^他 “有zu|rt\ol关NGMr+!Lz系”的Dh?a2sI[公Yd4j~}sU司把$W3x*@u}她的Dh?a2sI[产品挤走了Xaq0@[oi。
唐小J\uPbYW(姐有zu|rt\ol点1zwm|#Vy无EA?NZn_&奈和L$34KpxF落寞,她说,出8@BZM^1h国?leU1rU910年7gPBn^p\,她的Dh?a2sI[朋友圈子和L$34KpxF人1k}4&6Xl脉关NGMr+!Lz系基本mddRxxWq都oocHiLt(在{2]fiOfP美国?leU1rU9,如+4NE(A^%今pj)aKNOU回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9,要FHvE$+O}从(ZmTl72q零开4x9bp?Nm始积累人1k}4&6Xl脉关NGMr+!Lz系,这Fk9Tcd1e需要FHvE$+O}一jSG]BLpe定的Dh?a2sI[时间。
案例三[*h6u~}R:
高QGiLZB+n不VHLno!1~成%6fTBtcV低不VHLno!1~就lJFKnys\ 宅在{2]fiOfP家gu7OVAyr里}fytq|LH“啃老XwjNJBR~”
26岁的Dh?a2sI[卢小J\uPbYW(姐是TiUq3{mT一jSG]BLpe位英国?leU1rU9海|nOp&q#e归,在{2]fiOfP英国?leU1rU9留学(AKdfN5?三[*h6u~}R年7gPBn^p\,2010年7gPBn^p\回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9后%W_itJtg工MHO7fn1c作了Xaq0@[oi一jSG]BLpe段时间,觉得ZZw+Z7QW不VHLno!1~理想,遂辞职在{2]fiOfP家gu7OVAyr,当9e3WHKhC起vji5@%ry了Xaq0@[oi“宅女%L!o5PFU”。
2010年7gPBn^p\,卢小J\uPbYW(姐从(ZmTl72q英国?leU1rU9回3R_r9y!t来a_2@Wk{C,到Ix&%TX?r上?vtBWk(@海|nOp&q#e的Dh?a2sI[一jSG]BLpe家gu7OVAyr教育机&7w%lTw^构做D8W%tdVQ咨询顾问。做D8W%tdVQ了Xaq0@[oi两)dkNtH[I个@@rAJ#Kg多月,她就lJFKnys\辞职了Xaq0@[oi,她觉得ZZw+Z7QW,那w@$NtMSL份工MHO7fn1c作既辛苦,工MHO7fn1c资也mCr^V)h9不VHLno!1~高QGiLZB+n,“薪水刚uw^xXSx{够yIJ@3x4p我PT?3J4Od租房i{&AE!^v,每mB+[F)Ky月爸妈还q~P\%JNfYAq6xK~L得ZZw+Z7QW支援我PT?3J4Od伙食费和L$34KpxF零用iM?@eNR]钱。经常要FHvE$+O}加z^hX_h|\班j|4wtEcC,所S|!Kvm~j以CacE^T!4就lJFKnys\不VHLno!1~想干@2#DgN+{了Xaq0@[oi”。卢小J\uPbYW(姐如+4NE(A^%是TiUq3{mT说。
辞职后%W_itJtg,卢小J\uPbYW(姐又7$CBs3\M去YzBB*xVu上?vtBWk(@海|nOp&q#e几GLC2ubRc家gu7OVAyr大zFiOET)u型外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2企应rB+GCfKj聘,因c_{v\xUL为\&ngAUn\工MHO7fn1c作经验缺乏,没m4#Wk@(|应rB+GCfKj聘成%6fTBtcV功。去YzBB*xVu年7gPBn^p\秋季,她从(ZmTl72q上?vtBWk(@海|nOp&q#e回3R_r9y!t南YihqyY9z宁,去YzBB*xVu了Xaq0@[oi一jSG]BLpe家gu7OVAyr英语培训机&7w%lTw^构做D8W%tdVQ口8RY!z6EL语老XwjNJBR~师,干@2#DgN+{了Xaq0@[oi一jSG]BLpe个@@rAJ#Kg多月,觉得ZZw+Z7QW不VHLno!1~自由vEZTG0R)又7$CBs3\M辛苦,再Cf!ecPi^次68ra0IRI辞职。“现&%PxbSa0在{2]fiOfP还q~P\%JNfYAq6xK~L没m4#Wk@(|去YzBB*xVu工MHO7fn1c作,在{2]fiOfP家gu7OVAyr里}fytq|LH呆着iERXCqX?,有zu|rt\ol时间的Dh?a2sI[话LPb5Q^Qy,帮妈妈打理店里}fytq|LH的Dh?a2sI[生意。”卢小J\uPbYW(姐说,父母都oocHiLt(是TiUq3{mT生意人1k}4&6Xl,家gu7OVAyr里}fytq|LH并PhfL6B+l不VHLno!1~愁钱花,如+4NE(A^%果找不VHLno!1~到Ix&%TX?r合意的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作,她在{2]fiOfP家gu7OVAyr呆着iERXCqX?也mCr^V)h9不VHLno!1~成%6fTBtcV问题,等过htLsHyK4几GLC2ubRc年7gPBn^p\玩够yIJ@3x4p了Xaq0@[oi,再Cf!ecPi^全_9+O)~qI心帮父母打理家gu7OVAyr里}fytq|LH的Dh?a2sI[生意。她觉得ZZw+Z7QW,自己现&%PxbSa0在{2]fiOfP对DfUZO@d$国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]的Dh?a2sI[打工MHO7fn1c生活很!5k{%hfj不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj,工MHO7fn1c作太X]B+dEuN紧张。
分rWp#cM}j析:
典型的Dh?a2sI[“逆向k)Lg*hp3文化_qNM~WU~休克FsGwl5Qt”
“海|nOp&q#e归其%c#zI54^实同2sX6j5^g样要FHvE$+O}面对DfUZO@d$回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9后%W_itJtg"水土不VHLno!1~服"的Dh?a2sI[情况。”目前?VE^rc+F在{2]fiOfP美国?leU1rU9加z^hX_h|\州大zFiOET)u学(AKdfN5?洛杉矶分rWp#cM}j校读#q\#T+(y硕的Dh?a2sI[徐毅,出8@BZM^1h国?leU1rU9前?VE^rc+F是TiUq3{mT国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]一jSG]BLpe家gu7OVAyr教育机&7w%lTw^构的Dh?a2sI[咨询师。
他表@vn[PPz8示,海|nOp&q#e归的Dh?a2sI[这Fk9Tcd1e种“水土不VHLno!1~服”现&%PxbSa0象其%c#zI54^实也mCr^V)h9叫k$IIP7Wl“逆向k)Lg*hp3文化_qNM~WU~休克FsGwl5Qt”。学(AKdfN5?子出8@BZM^1h国?leU1rU9时,面对DfUZO@d$国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2陌生的Dh?a2sI[环境和L$34KpxF文化_qNM~WU~,产生不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj感,出8@BZM^1h现&%PxbSa0“文化_qNM~WU~休克FsGwl5Qt”现&%PxbSa0象。为\&ngAUn\了Xaq0@[oi适应rB+GCfKj而潜移默化_qNM~WU~地ExVeyI$I接4m}qRtuq受当9e3WHKhC地ExVeyI$I的Dh?a2sI[风mLh6_9R_俗习惯,减轻差异和L$34KpxF隔阂,必须])&{v^vB要FHvE$+O}使自己尽快yC5Bz{me融入5LF@z|bT当9e3WHKhC地ExVeyI$I社会xZzXFem7。学(AKdfN5?子回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9后%W_itJtg,已GY4JAGkR适应rB+GCfKj异国?leU1rU9的Dh?a2sI[行为\&ngAUn\模式与国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]的Dh?a2sI[主流行为\&ngAUn\模式产生冲突,不VHLno!1~可ntqtjMVl避免IshgaNM*地ExVeyI$I产生身q5oRd)dz心上?vtBWk(@的Dh?a2sI[不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj,由vEZTG0R)此g*MZ]rI6出8@BZM^1h现&%PxbSa0“逆向k)Lg*hp3文化_qNM~WU~休克FsGwl5Qt”现&%PxbSa0象。
徐毅说,由vEZTG0R)于rQ^rla$t缺乏有zu|rt\ol效的Dh?a2sI[心理准备,海|nOp&q#e归在{2]fiOfP面对DfUZO@d$这Fk9Tcd1e种“逆向k)Lg*hp3文化_qNM~WU~休克FsGwl5Qt”时,往往伴随着iERXCqX?孤独、压抑、郁闷等情感,价值观念的Dh?a2sI[冲突、生活习惯的Dh?a2sI[改变、人1k}4&6Xl际关NGMr+!Lz系的Dh?a2sI[疏离等等,都oocHiLt(会xZzXFem7引发_uq!hAj)海|nOp&q#e归思维方Ff?C0ynZ面的Dh?a2sI[激烈冲突,有zu|rt\ol些vKk]yn[V人1k}4&6Xl士面对DfUZO@d$这Fk9Tcd1e样的Dh?a2sI[挫折,会xZzXFem7选^Cq(MrJ2择逃避。
陈倩倩高QGiLZB+n中_$i_^b66毕业即到Ix&%TX?r澳大zFiOET)u利亚留学(AKdfN5?,在{2]fiOfP澳洲待了Xaq0@[oi10年7gPBn^p\。她认ddjeG}wo为\&ngAUn\,海|nOp&q#e归回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9工MHO7fn1c作和L$34KpxF生活,最B6IL+Dj?不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj的Dh?a2sI[是TiUq3{mT国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]的Dh?a2sI[人1k}4&6Xl际关NGMr+!Lz系。在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2如+4NE(A^%澳洲,求职、工MHO7fn1c作最B6IL+Dj?主要FHvE$+O}的Dh?a2sI[是TiUq3{mT看LL?]k$!x能4_j4!3bS力、经验;工MHO7fn1c作后%W_itJtg,同2sX6j5^g事之间的Dh?a2sI[关NGMr+!Lz系都oocHiLt(比M|+iU|kH较单8f6z}IE\纯,鲜有zu|rt\ol错综复杂的Dh?a2sI[人1k}4&6Xl际关NGMr+!Lz系,也mCr^V)h9鲜有zu|rt\ol频繁跳槽的Dh?a2sI[情况发_uq!hAj)生。陈倩倩说,以CacE^T!4她为\&ngAUn\例,由vEZTG0R)于rQ^rla$t长r7Md]8Am期待在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2,国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]的Dh?a2sI[朋友都oocHiLt(少npcqD[3~有zu|rt\ol联系,所S|!Kvm~j以CacE^T!4回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9后%W_itJtg没m4#Wk@(|有zu|rt\ol固定的Dh?a2sI[社交1ROH2Wp|圈,朋友少npcqD[3~,对DfUZO@d$工MHO7fn1c作和L$34KpxF生活有zu|rt\ol一jSG]BLpe定的Dh?a2sI[影响。这Fk9Tcd1e是TiUq3{mT许多海|nOp&q#e归人1k}4&6Xl士都oocHiLt(面临的Dh?a2sI[情况,需要FHvE$+O}一jSG]BLpe段时间去YzBB*xVu适应rB+GCfKj和L$34KpxF改善。
建议:
调整心态适应rB+GCfKj环境
徐毅认ddjeG}wo为\&ngAUn\,海|nOp&q#e归回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9后%W_itJtg,适应rB+GCfKj国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]的Dh?a2sI[生活和L$34KpxF工MHO7fn1c作就lJFKnys\如+4NE(A^%同2sX6j5^g刚uw^xXSx{到Ix&%TX?r国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2学(AKdfN5?习生活一jSG]BLpe样,也mCr^V)h9需要FHvE$+O}一jSG]BLpe个@@rAJ#Kg逐步适应rB+GCfKj的Dh?a2sI[过htLsHyK4程。建议调整自己的Dh?a2sI[心态,针对DfUZO@d$自身q5oRd)dz情况进行客观分rWp#cM}j析,以CacE^T!4便更LNlF#*7I快yC5Bz{me地ExVeyI$I融入5LF@z|bT国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作和L$34KpxF生活。一jSG]BLpe些vKk]yn[V海|nOp&q#e归人1k}4&6Xl士认ddjeG}wo为\&ngAUn\自己有zu|rt\ol海|nOp&q#e外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2留学(AKdfN5?背景,回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9后%W_itJtg的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作期望值过htLsHyK4高QGiLZB+n,一jSG]BLpe旦工MHO7fn1c作不VHLno!1~太X]B+dEuN如+4NE(A^%意,不VHLno!1~是TiUq3{mT跳槽就lJFKnys\是TiUq3{mT拒绝工MHO7fn1c作。他建议海|nOp&q#e归人1k}4&6Xl士调整求职心态,对DfUZO@d$于rQ^rla$t回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9应rB+GCfKj聘的Dh?a2sI[企业规模、工MHO7fn1c作环境、薪资水平foNkp70}等,不VHLno!1~要FHvE$+O}要FHvE$+O}求过htLsHyK4高QGiLZB+n,要FHvE$+O}切合实际,以CacE^T!4免IshgaNM*产生心理落差,失去YzBB*xVu对DfUZO@d$工MHO7fn1c作的Dh?a2sI[信pMsTInhA心。工MHO7fn1c作经验不VHLno!1~是TiUq3{mT很!5k{%hfj丰富的Dh?a2sI[年7gPBn^p\轻海|nOp&q#e归更LNlF#*7I应rB+GCfKj放Ouv*M]Gr低姿态,得ZZw+Z7QW到Ix&%TX?r一jSG]BLpe个@@rAJ#Kg让UYE?&eSm自己获取Z*ks(*yM经验的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作应rB+GCfKj该8nwJpo$p珍惜,从(ZmTl72q基层起vji5@%ry锻炼自己,在{2]fiOfP短Fx8mQ&Ef时间获得ZZw+Z7QW更LNlF#*7I多的Dh?a2sI[工MHO7fn1c作经验,为\&ngAUn\职场生涯增加z^hX_h|\砝码。
南YihqyY9z宁移民专家gu7OVAyr小J\uPbYW(唐是TiUq3{mT加z^hX_h|\拿l&hiFON8大zFiOET)u海|nOp&q#e归,他认ddjeG}wo为\&ngAUn\海|nOp&q#e归之所S|!Kvm~j以CacE^T!4出8@BZM^1h现&%PxbSa0“水土不VHLno!1~服”现&%PxbSa0象,主要FHvE$+O}是TiUq3{mT在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2生活时间长r7Md]8Am,习惯了Xaq0@[oi国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2的Dh?a2sI[生活,回3R_r9y!t来a_2@Wk{C马上?vtBWk(@投入5LF@z|bT国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]社会xZzXFem7,必然会xZzXFem7有zu|rt\ol很!5k{%hfj多不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj。他建议,留学(AKdfN5?生如+4NE(A^%果回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9发_uq!hAj)展,就lJFKnys\要FHvE$+O}接4m}qRtuq纳与适应rB+GCfKj这Fk9Tcd1e些vKk]yn[V差异,既然回3R_r9y!t来a_2@Wk{C了Xaq0@[oi,为\&ngAUn\了Xaq0@[oi更LNlF#*7I好R$y#XUXf地ExVeyI$I工MHO7fn1c作与生活,必须])&{v^vB让UYE?&eSm自己去YzBB*xVu适应rB+GCfKj环境。唐小J\uPbYW(雨还q~P\%JNfYAq6xK~L认ddjeG}wo为\&ngAUn\,海|nOp&q#e归回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9,适应rB+GCfKj国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]社会xZzXFem7与行为\&ngAUn\模式不VHLno!1~等同2sX6j5^g于rQ^rla$t被(4{tH~4M国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]一jSG]BLpe些vKk]yn[V惯有zu|rt\ol行为\&ngAUn\模式同2sX6j5^g化_qNM~WU~。海|nOp&q#e归可ntqtjMVl以CacE^T!4多考wvg(cwNJ虑加z^hX_h|\入5LF@z|bT外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2企或fE\!vDIT是TiUq3{mT自己创业,这Fk9Tcd1e样就lJFKnys\不VHLno!1~那w@$NtMSL么容W$q&!vLu易被(4{tH~4M同2sX6j5^g化_qNM~WU~。在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2,所S|!Kvm~j学(AKdfN5?到Ix&%TX?r不VHLno!1~一jSG]BLpe样的Dh?a2sI[东a}#Vw1dd西u!hrmD\S比M|+iU|kH如+4NE(A^%一jSG]BLpe些vKk]yn[V良好R$y#XUXf的Dh?a2sI[生活习惯与待人1k}4&6Xl礼仪可ntqtjMVl以CacE^T!4保留。即使选^Cq(MrJ2择回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9,保留一jSG]BLpe些vKk]yn[V海|nOp&q#e归的Dh?a2sI[特质或fE\!vDIT许更LNlF#*7I有zu|rt\ol与众不VHLno!1~同2sX6j5^g的Dh?a2sI[人1k}4&6Xl格魅力。另5c84I}is外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2,建议有zu|rt\ol回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9计划的Dh?a2sI[留学(AKdfN5?生在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2期间,也mCr^V)h9要FHvE$+O}关NGMr+!Lz注国?leU1rU9内{vs3)Ex]经济与生活,了Xaq0@[oi解就lJFKnys\业行情,除了Xaq0@[oi在{2]fiOfP国?leU1rU9外8t4}?L0Oq*Fh)D|2企业实习,也mCr^V)h9可ntqtjMVl选^Cq(MrJ2择回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9实习一jSG]BLpe段时间,积累工MHO7fn1c作经验与人1k}4&6Xl脉,为\&ngAUn\回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9就lJFKnys\业做D8W%tdVQ好R$y#XUXf充分rWp#cM}j的Dh?a2sI[准备,这Fk9Tcd1e样可ntqtjMVl以CacE^T!4有zu|rt\ol效减轻回3R_r9y!t国?leU1rU9后%W_itJtg的Dh?a2sI[不VHLno!1~适应rB+GCfKj感。